How to be Happy
It's been quite sometime since I have written a post. A lot was going on in my life. I know that shouldn't be a reason to not keep up with work. But this blog is not just my workspace , it's my creative space and it's often difficult to be creative when are not at peace.
Now, that you know what kept me from writing, let me tell you what motivated me to write. It's happiness !
Does that mean I have absolutely no problem in life and everything is a cakewalk? No! Happiness is a choice, it's a state of mind.
What is happiness to you? Are you truly happy? Have you ever sat down and thought about what makes you happy? If not, then now is the time to think, now is the time to be happy.
We are competitive. We often love to compare our success to others. If we see ourselves at a greater position than others, it gives us happiness, if the case is opposite , we try to bring them down, get jealous and in the process be unhappy ourselves.
True happiness is pure. It comes from within. It's you who will decide whether you want to be happy.
Stop thinking about what the world thinks about you, start taking care of what you really want. We often lead an unhappy life because you care too much of what others have to say about our lives. Well you know what? You do you and the rest of the world will fall in place.
We are often too scared to dream big and end up living a sad and unhappy life. Why? Because we start conceiving the ways in which the dreams might turn into reality and often draw a scary picture of the failures and end up giving up on ourselves , our dreams, our creativities even before starting.
Do you want an unhappy life? I know the answer.Well, then, start believing in yourself, your dreams and choose happiness and stop being afraid .
Another important factor which contributes immensely towards happiness is self-love. Don't be harsh on yourself. You deserve the best. You are beautiful, you are special. People who are toxic to your mental health in any way could be a reason why you are not happy. Stay away from those people. Choose yourself over them.
Always be grateful for what you have and see magic unfolding right in front of your eyes. Be kind , be patient , be happy and most importantly be you.
I love you so much,XO.